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Prince Harry isn’t wrong

31st March 2017

Sometimes I’m asked why we blog and contribute to the discussion about death and dying, as though our real job is something else. At Albany, we have a mission to help improve the whole conversation about death and dying in the UK so that people are helped to make better choices which will help them in their grief. We do this because better conversations in our culture around this issue will not only more effectively support those who are going through it, but it will better prepare individuals for when their time arrives to experience grief.

We add our voice, of course, to a growing chorus of people who want more honesty about the subject so that we can grieve more healthily as a society and in doing so, live more fully. In this helpful article, Isy Suttie speaks about her admiration for Prince Harry’s honesty in speaking about his loss, because, in her words, ‘digesting someone’s disappearance is a continual process.’

As a further update, in this interview in the Telegraph, Prince Harry helpfully describes the consequences that not talking about his mother’s death had on his life and the helpful steps he has taken to move forward.



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Good morning everyone! We’d like to share the below words from Heart of Kent Hospice about their Compassionate Neighbour Project as a close friend is a volunteer in this wonderful initiative. “The project was launched in January 2020 to tackle social isolation and loneliness for those living with a life-limiting illness or frailty in Maidstone, Tonbridge and Malling and surrounding towns and villages. In just one year, the project has recruited and trained 67 Compassionate Neighbour volunteers, of which 51 have been matched and supported 67 isolated members within the local community.To meet the needs of the community, so that no one nearing the end of their life through age or illness feels lonely, Heart of Kent Hospice is aiming to recruit and train at least six new volunteers every month”.If any of our followers feel they could be part of this fantastic scheme, get in touch with the Heart of Kent Hospice, they’d love to hear from you. 🌸 ... See MoreSee Less

3 weeks ago

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With the coronavirus restrictions still limiting funerals to 30 people, being able to offer a live stream of the service has made such a difference to many of our clients. We've had friends and family members from all over the world joining us on their screens from the comfort and safety of their own homes, and also even fully participating in 'Zoom' funerals. Some are still a bit skeptical but we honestly find that the experience has been mostly positive, and offered a real lifeline in some situations. Here is a little video prepared by one of the celebrants we work with which offers some great insight and advice on how to get the most out of attending a funeral via live-stream or Zoom. Thank you Marc Lemezma. https://vimeo.com/531153582 ... See MoreSee Less

3 weeks ago

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The team at Albany are proud to be Dementia Friends Champions and we are a Dementia Friendly business. Dementia Friends are trained volunteers who encourage others to learn a little bit about dementia. Champions run Information Sessions in their community and inspire others to help those living with dementia live well.If you register your organisation with Dementia Friends, you will get access to resources and information aimed at helping members of your organisation understand dementia and how it may affect a person.For further information head to Dementia UK Dementia Friends or Building a Dementia Friendly Maidstone. ... See MoreSee Less

4 weeks ago

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Our branch in Great Chart, just outside of Ashford is within a beautiful converted barn on New Street farm which was previously a fully working farm. When visiting Albany you can be assured of a warm welcome in peaceful and relaxing surroundings. As you can see our bereavement dog, Pix, rather likes standing at the front door watching the world go by. Please contact us on 01233 650746 if you require further information. ... See MoreSee Less

1 month ago

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Rather than a traditional service did you know you can organise an unattended cremation? For some the formal ceremony at a crematorium is not feasible, too costly, unbearable or has no meaning in a space that can feel disconnected to the person who died. An unattended cremation enables you to arrange a celebration of your loved one’s life at a venue of your own choice where you can say goodbye with scattering of ashes, or not.This type of memorial gives you the opportunity, with more time and space, to add personal and creative aspects to saying farewell. At Albany we embrace this option wholeheartedly, there are so many ways of saying goodbye, we want people to know there are choices and families do not have to be constricted by tradition. The images are of an unattended cremation, at all times our staff and the staff at Vinters Park Crematorium treat the departed with peaceful dignity.In this instance the family held an afternoon tea around the coffin in the beautiful lounge space at our Ashford premises, they shared laughter, anecdotes and photographs whilst listening to favourite songs and reminiscing, it was a very special afternoon. (Photos shared with permission and government guidelines were observed). ... See MoreSee Less

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2 months ago

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Despite the light drizzle this was a beautiful service at Eden Valley Woodland Burial Ground celebrating the life of a much loved Mother. The flowers from Star & The Rose were stunning and seamlessly complemented the surroundings. ... See MoreSee Less
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